a memoir

Walking Beside Her

Sometimes love asks you to hold on. Sometimes it asks you to let go. The hardest part is knowing which.

Some love stories end. This one became a purpose.

by Balaji Somlar

Now available on Kindle. Paperback coming soon.

Walking Beside Her — book cover

A Love Story First

Funny, warm, and deeply human — the story of two people who fell in love slowly, honestly, and completely.

A Story About Dignity

When death looked them in the eye, they refused to look away. They chose, on their own terms, how their story would end.

A Story About Purpose

Not grief. Not absence. What remains when you have truly walked beside someone, all the way to the end.

Vini — a pencil sketch portrait

The heart of the story

Vini

"I didn't write this book because I had something to say about grief. I wrote it because Vini deserved to be known."

Clear-eyed, quietly courageous, and completely herself. This is her story too.

The destination may be predestined. But how you travel to it — that is the truest measure of character.— Walking Beside Her

About the Book

What begins as a love story — complete with office romances, borrowed motorcycles, and a wedding night haunted by hidden alarm clocks — becomes, by its final pages, one of the most honest accounts of love, loss, and what it means to truly know another person. Based on a true story. Every word of it.

Now available on Kindle. Paperback coming soon.

Balaji Somlar, author of Walking Beside Her

About the Author

Technology leader. Founder of Neuronests. Father of two daughters. And the man who walked beside Vini, from a Bangalore call centre in 2008 to a riverbank in Switzerland — and is still walking.

I didn't write this book because I had something to say about grief. I wrote it because Vini deserved to be known.

What readers are saying

The tenacity and spirit of an independent woman — Vini truly shines like Baahubali. Bali's words capture her perfectly.
Beta Reader, India
So much fun — a naturally transcending office romance. But by the end, I had learned so much about life itself.
Beta Reader, UK
The maturity of the children, the problem-solver in Bali, the fighter in Vini — I just can't stop thinking about them.
Beta Reader, India

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